Are you living Thankless Life?

April is ending and here are going to be 4 months to get over with this 2020. I hope you are making the best of this time and living this time at its best. As we all are at home and getting the opportunity to spend our maximum time with ourself, our families and looking the very different side of Life.

Last week, I was talking one of my friend and he had suggested me to watch a punjabi movie named "Sufna".The movie starts with a 8 years old girl whose parents are died and her relative is raising her. They are treating this girl as domestic maid and are too cruel with her.Later, the story goes like this till she turns 23 . At the end this girl found her love and came back to them to show her gratitude to them. She said" it doesn't matter that I didn't get good food but at least I got basic food to survive, not a bed with mattresses but a shelter to live because of them".This movie made me thought that "Life is not too tough and harsh to us but our expectations make it like that for us". Isn't it?

Unfortunately, our ladder of expectation is too high that people around us are not able to climb it and then we start making complaints !! This behaviour of ours, makes the relations so complicated. The other person was putting lots of efforts in his/her best way but we had never appreciated however always replicated with complaints as our expectation were not matched. Then....we all know people leave and as a farewell gift we don't forget to curse that person or bitching about that person in front of various friends or society and try to satisfy our egos..

Think about it, I am sure everyone of us can relate with it...

This is the bitter truth of life that we would like to change the entire world but we never want to change ourself. We want to change the habits of our loved one's but we do not want to change a bit. This is the main reason why we loose loved one's in our lives. The time, we waste to change others if we spend half of it to appreciate what are they doing for us, it will create miracles in our relations.The main reason of any relationship which is not working is "high expectations" and as soon as you lower down the expectations, everything starts working fantastically !!

"Gratitude" the core of life and the spine of every successful relationship.

What you value in your life increases its value.What you appreciate, begins to appreciate. Appreciate your good health, Appreciate your family, Appreciate your friends, your work and your Life and then your perception will change and your Life will be full of appreciation.

It is very important to appreciate what we have and stop complaining for what we do not have in our lives. I see people around they are upset because they do not have what other's have in their life. They haven't looked their blessings ever. As we had heard " Grass is always greener on the other side and that is so true. Stop comparing yourself with anyone because you have your uniqueness and amazing set of people with you in your life.

You do not know how blessed are you and the reason why are you not able to count your blessings as you were too busy to look around and soon you will start loosing all the blessings which are with you. Be grateful for small things like have a family, owning a house, studying in good college, have two eyes and so on. Small things really matters and are more impactful in our lives. Be grateful to people and thankful to them, people like your driver, servants, grocery delivering boy, cleaner...the list is long who are contributing so much in your life and you have never thanked them.

Life is a mirror what you show it, it will reflect the same. As soon as you will change your view towards life, people, relations around it will start replicating in the same way.

The attitude is gratitude. Counting your blessings and not taking things for granted. I am sure there is a big list with you where you are lot more to be thankful.

Just think about it and implement it immediately. Never forget ... “Life is what you make it"

Cheers