Instagram:fake or real.whats your say?

Hey everyone, As we look around our life, social media, especially instagram has created its own important place in our lives. The best part is we are able to connect with our loved one's and are able to make new friends but the ugly side is that there is so much pressure which is created in people's lives. Everybody wants to show the perfect side of themselves on instagram, wants to look good all the time, rush to upload the moments on instagram but not to be lived and so on....!

Comparison with others Life:

As there is an accessibility to know what is happening in others life, comparison has walked in .However, comparison has always been there in our life since childhood but instagram has given the highest opportunity to everyone to compare their lives with anyone. There is a bug in our mind of comparison.Stop comparing and start knowing yourself. This is unfortunate that we are so busy looking at others' lives that we have stopped valuing ourselves, looking inside us, working on our flaws. This is the reason we always feel that the other person is superior to me because we do not know our worth and keep underestimating ourselves.

Everybody should like me:

People are free to dislike you as everyone has their own choices. According to me there are people who cannot like mangoes but there are people who do not like mangoes but it doesn't make mango bad, it's just that people have different tastes. We need to accept that you are unique in your way and it is not right to expect that people will look at the world as you look. So if people dislike you on social media it doesn't make you bad.

Perfection:

Do you know when any picture is being uploaded on instagram it has gone through with makeup, perfect lighting, then angles, retake, 50 time clicks and then editing tools. I believe anybody can look good by using all these tools. In short, "perfection is fake". Do not try to look perfect in life as nobody is perfect but be genuine in life. If you want to impress people, be genuine and be what you are. Never try to hide your flaws because they are a part of you and you cannot hide it but yes you can work on it and make it better.

Let me know what you think about instagram.

Looking forward to hear from you

Cheers

Nitin