Love in your life : Words or in Action?

Hey Everyone, if you look around there is so much love in the words around us. Isn't it? Read it again : in words :)

People around us keep saying that they love us​ especially when we talk to our friends. I think it is a word which is being used as a footer by default now "with love". Few days back I went to attend a party at my friend's place and he had invited his multiple BFF's too. One of his closest friends suddenly asked in front of all "Hey what happened to your hair. You are getting bald now ! All started looking at him and I found him embarrassed at the same moment, however he made that situation covered with his smile. On the another moment again he said to another guy I know he feels more comfortable with guys (like he is gay) but in a closet.

Do you really think people like him are your friends or best friends who make you feel uncomfortable in front of others? They know that such statements will make someone uneasy but still they will choose such words and behave in such an insensible way so everyone can laugh. It made me think that we should choose people in our lives who say "I love You" or show love through their actions. Having the right people in our lives is very crucial. They can become our strength and make us feel powerful but not weak. People like him who do not think and speak are not your lovers but an impersonator in your life who will keep playing with your emotions.

Love is something which can be observed in actions, doesn't matter if you say it or not but it can be felt. I was talking to one of my friends in the gym and he was looking too tired. I asked him are you ok ? He said, actually I had slept at 3 AM then I had a shift at 7 AM and then I am here at the gym in the evening so I'm very tired today. As a counter question i asked but why did you sleep late?

He said, because I was talking to my girlfriend.

I asked, wasn't she aware that you have a shift at 7 AM and you have to go on bike for 90 kms to Delhi then from your hometown?

He said she knew, even though I was too sleepy but she wanted to speak to me so I continued as she loves me.

I was just smiling....! I am not sure if this is love or what ?

Such people who are not caring for you, play with your mental health, your health are not the true lovers.

Trust me if your spouse/partner is not bothering you after a long day and not pushing you to make long phone calls, you are blessed as the person really cares for you and loves you. For them your health and your happiness is above all.

Be with people who understand you, do not ask for explanations, do not embarrass you, do not make yourself answerable when you have a tough day. True Love is beyond such actions.

When you forget everything for other person happiness, Samaj Jana "You are in true love"

Cheers

Nitin