Mistakes to avoid, if you are in LOVE !

Hey Guys...hope you all are doing well. It's been a long time that I haven't written any blog but yes again I am here to pen down my thoughts. Gifts are something which expresses our feelings and the gift I am talking about is a gift which you keep taking and giving to people. This gift is very precious but cannot be valued in monetary terms, not available in the market too so you cannot buy this gift and not even snatch it from someone, can you guess what am I talking about? Yes "Love" Love is precious as you cannot get it by pushing someone or you can't even buy it. Unfortunately, still this gift is being rejected by so many people ?

Have you ever thought about it, why so? I keep hearing from people that I had loved that person from the core of my heart but still that person had left me ! What went wrong ? Have you ever diagnosed it?

ok...let me ask you a question. If you love someone, what will you do... will you allow that person to do what they like to do or should they do what you like ? I am sure what they like, because that will make that person happy ! But unfortunately, for most people " Love means, you do what I like to do !" Here is where we go wrong. In love "One needs to accept the person with his flaws". Think about all the instances in your relationship and I am sure you will be able to connect what I am trying to say here. I know that we all try to put our best efforts in our relationships but still some actions of ours add some bitterness in between which we do not realise.

Expectations, there is nothing wrong to have expectations in relations but let's accept that nobody can fulfil all your expectations. There will be some ups and downs . Lets appreciate what is being given and count all the feelings behind. Freedom, this is most precious for all of us, do not bound your lover, it's not actually required. The vibe of your love will always keep him close to you so why to bound :) Giving Space, Checking a mobile phone, keeping a tap on his social media account will definitely not give you a certificate that you love your lover. Trust your partner and give them the space to create that magic of care :) Respect, This is most important for your relationship, never let down your partner in front of others, remember this rule even after your breakup ! And at the end I wanna say "Give as much as you can in love without any expectations" because as I say "Pyar hai vyapar nahi" Cheers Nitin