Things not moving as per plan... Here what you should do !

Hey Everyone, Its being long when I haven't written a blog ​as I was in a roller coaster :).

I am sure we all struggle to manage multiple things together and sometimes it is tough to choose what to pick and what to leave but when we leave the actionable what we love or enjoy, there is that emptiness, anxiety within us, it feels that life is not on the right track. This rule is applicable in the relations too when there are multiple people in your life and there are people with whom you feel that happiness, as without talking to them your day doesn't go well, you feel something is incomplete. However on the other side, it doesn't get reciprocated often and they are not counting on you in their priority list but keeps you as Stepney. What to do ??

Please take a step back immediately !

Initially it will be bit tough but trust me later you will feel proud of yourself as you have not pushed yourself on someone and take the exit with self respect. However, incase you matter to them they will come back with more love and respect. As i said earlier too, it's important to watch the actions of the other side not the words ! Read my other blog Love in your life " In actions or in words?" to get more insight on this.

While, when you take a step back from such relations, it feels that everything is happening wrong in your life. There is loneliness, anxiety, nature don't look beautiful as it used to look. what to do in this situation?

There was once a naval officer who went for his first voyage after his wedding. Unfortunately the ship got stuck in the storm of high seas and it was getting tossed by the waves. Everybody in the ship was anxious except the sailor. His wife was looking at his calm demeanour and said, "My dear husband how are you calm in such a difficult situation?". He smiled and took off his sword from his shield and placed the blade on his wife head and asked "Are you worried?" She said "No". He said why not as this naked blade is on your head and it can go right through in the centre of your skull. She said, its in your hand and I have faith that you are my well wisher why should I get scared of? The naval officer said, In the same way I have a faith that this ship is in the hands of GOD and whatever he does it is in my best interest because he is my well wisher. This faith frees us from anxiety and helps us to focus on doing our best and ultimately is the way to stay happy in our life and simplify the game of life.

Have that faith and trust when people leaves from your life or you get far from them as there is always a bigger picture which we are not able to see from our limited thought process.

Do your best and sit back as whatever is happening, happening for good !

Cheers

Nitin