Why closures are important in your relationships?

We are different souls with different mindset’s. Unfortunately in our lives we become strangers to the One with whom the day used to start and nights used to end. One of the hardest things is to do closures with that person who was once upon a time “everything to you”.

Closure is important to do as you deserve peace in your life and helps you to move on in your life. Every person may have different situations, struggles and the pains in their relationship so closure needs to be done in your own way, by finding the answers which you deserve after you have done so much investment in that person. Here is why closure is important in your life:

Healing

Love is beautiful but many times it ends with wounds and pain. Closures work like Band Aids which helps you to heal faster. Talking to the person and having that acceptance that it is not working out. Getting the answers of your unanswered questions which are not allowing you to sleep and have peace in your mind is utmost important. I understand that it is not easy but if you will not put a band-aid(closure) in your relationship it may take more time to heal and have much more probability to reopen again. Only you can heal yourself and avoid it becoming a scar !

Moving On

You need to do the closure as it helps you to move on. In many cases one person moves on however the other person keeps trying what if I do this and this relation can be worked out. It’s good to be optimistic in life but here you are just going to take circles in a dark room where you are just hurting yourself and there is no end to it. Trust me these situations will not take you anywhere, somewhere you need to accept that this won’t work out now and you need to give peace to yourself by doing closures. In any case, if you may be with that person again in future but that warmth and respect won’t be there. There are people around who love you and are looking forward to being with you, wanting you to smile and showering that sprinkle of love in your life again. Do not make that mistake to close your eyes and keep sitting in that dark room.

Being Happy

When you go through the breakup there are a plethora of emotions which keep rolling in your mind. You will feel sadness, anger and Heartbreak. You have different sequences but you will feel all this. There are moments when you may curse your ex or hate him/her but closure helps you to bring peace in your life. I am not saying turn best friends with your ex but at least you will not have that enemy feeling with that person after the closures.

You need to accept the mistakes which you have also done and didn’t release. It is important to accept that the relationship is not needed because of one person there are always some cracks from both ends that a different discussion who had created more.

Try not to put your energies on the negative sides and push it at the positive thinking, looking around the people and going for a new start. We all have a right to stay happy and you deserve it.

Life is too short to dwell on what was lost, when there is so much to be gained !

Cheers

Nitin